DEAR ABBY

My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from the beginning and when I confront him, he denies everything. What's worse, everyone knows that he cheats on me. It is so humiliating.

Also, since he lost his job five years ago, he hasn't even looked for a new one. All he does all day is smoke cigars, cruise around, and shoot the bull with his buddies while I have to work to pay the bills.

Since our daughter went away to college he doesn't even pretend to like me. He even hints that I may be a lesbian. What should I do?

Signed, Clueless

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Dear Clueless:

Grow up and dump him. Good grief, woman.You don't need him anymore.You're a United States Senator from New York. Act like one.

*Thanks Taylor, Baton Rouge, Louisiana!